You will be surprised to read this but my youngest son, who’s only 3 years old, have given us something very powerful.
This method can be used among close family members or friends. Let me tell you the story and then I’ll explain how it can be used.
One day my son came to me, brought his finger closer to my nose, pressed my nose like pressing a button and then said “Tuweeng”. It sounds like somebody touched the string of a guitar. I did not know what he was trying to do. My wife explained that he was trying to make funny sound. We played this game with each other. He was pressing my nose & I was pressing his nose.
Toddlers are very impatiens. One day my son became angry. I was thinking to calm him down. I wanted to interrupt his thought pattern. All of a sudden “Tuweeng” came to my mind. I pressed his nose and said “Tuweeng”. I did it two, three times. He forgot his anger and started playing with me.
Since then I’ve used this method with my both sons and with my wife. Whenever there’s any tension between family members, I used this method and tension went away. I use this method to reconnect with my family members. You can devise your own method.
Here’s the explanation of this method:
- When we press nose and say “Tuweeng”, it interrupts the thought pattern.
- It’s funny.
- It will release tension, which was created because of anger, frustration etc.
I hope it will help you grow emotionally & spiritually.